I’m Sofia Vargas — Total Enneagram 3, textbook overachiever, recovering people pleaser.

NECESSITY IS THE MOTHER OF INVENTION.

Every great invention begins as a quiet refusal. A refusal to accept  the norm.  Being Rebellious and hyper self sufficient, was born out survival of not having available safe parenting.  The message was "You are on your own".   Provided with plenty of limiting beliefs, invalidation, psychological, emotional and physical abuse, the perfect blend to leave home at 16.  Become married at 18, with a child born at 19, separated at 21, bankrupt and single parent.  When your own mother is your worst enemy (Narcissist) who steals your identity and your toys, jewellery and things you love, no where is safe.  The Quest began to discover Why, Love was not available, Attachments were dangerous to my survival. 

The Method

Together we start with what matters.  Your ACE's tells the story. Then we build everything — Healing all the shadow parts, removing all the parts that should not be there, neutralizing emotional content — healing and recovering the abandoned and neglected child, dilute all the problems and stories.  Everything we do changes and repairs your brain, bandwidth increases, neurons rewire, internal architecture changes the architecture of your world, the impossible becomes possible.

ABOUT the FOUNDER

I’m Fiorella Martin. Founder.  Creator of The Attachment Trauma Recovery Method.

But in my quest for self recovery, I realized how many people needed faster solutions and something that worked to recover from trauma and have a new and better life.   So I trained, in all the methodologies that worked on me and none were talk therapies!  Finally I created the method distilled to get the most effective results in the shortest time possible.   The result is this method,  The Attachment Trauma Recovery Method. 

So I did what no one else did, I invented a method that is outside the lines,  — I rewrote the manual to change your story.  The past is an interpretation and does not have to equal your future.

I created this method, so that no one needs to be retraumatised, and in a safe place, transforms their perception of themselves, others and the world as safe, secure emotionally manageable and grounded in self identity.  My signature approach?

I believe in transforming shadow parts elegantly and creatively to become the best version of you.

And I’m here to make sure your results are fast and effective, so you can enjoy the freedom of living.

Before the last 25 years I was a Feng Shui Consultant and Interior Designer. Stumbled through many years trying to figure out how to heal from the past.  I tried many therapies and most did not work. Until I found the ones that finally did.  

WORKING with Fiorella WAS QUITE EASILY the   MOST TRANSFOMING EXPERIENCE of OUR  ENTIRE LIFE.

— Marie & Kostas